TreatDating, without
the awkward part.

Match on what you'll actually do together — and know who's treating, before the first hello.

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Treat opens a city the moment 151 people there have joined — never before. An empty dating app is worse than no dating app, so we wait until there are real people to meet.

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How it works

Three steps. No dead chats.

Most dating apps end in a conversation that goes nowhere. Treat starts with a plan.

1

Pick your perfect dates

Coffee run, hiking trail, bowling night, weekend cruise — choose from 68 activities, or add your own.

2

Set who treats

I'll treat, treat me, or 50/50. It shows on your profile, so there's no awkward moment at the table.

3

Match and go

Every match arrives with something to actually do — and you both already know how the bill works.

Who treats?

Settle it before hello.

It's a courtesy, not a transaction. You choose what feels right, and so do they.

💳I'll treatThis one's on me.
🎁Treat meI'd love to be taken out.
🤝50 / 50Let's split it evenly.
💬Decide togetherWe'll figure it out.

68 ways to meet

Match on the date, not just the face.

From a coffee run to a weekend cruise — pick the ones you'd genuinely say yes to.

Coffee run
🚶Walk and talk
🐕Dog park
🥐Lazy brunch
🥾Hiking trail
🎳Bowling night
🍕Late-night pizza
🎬Movie night
🍷Wine tasting
🎤Karaoke
🧺Picnic
🎨Gallery hop
🌅Sunset watching
🎢Theme park
🛥️Boat day
✈️And 53 more

Safety

Built careful from day one.

Tools that help you feel comfortable — and real people behind every profile.

📸Photo verificationA quick selfie matched to your photos earns the blue check.
🔒Who-pays stays hiddenUnverified accounts never show a who-pays preference.
🎥Video call before you meetSee and hear each other without swapping numbers.
🛡️Share your date planSend where you're going to a friend, with a check-in.
Report and blockEvery report is reviewed and acted on.
🔞Adults onlyTreat is strictly for people 18 and over.

Verification helps confirm that a member is a real person. It is not a background check, and it does not guarantee any member's identity, intentions, or safety. Always meet in public and tell someone where you're going.

Questions

Good to know

Is Treat available yet?

Not yet — we're building it now and opening city by city. Join the waitlist and you'll be among the first invited when Treat launches near you.

Is it free?

Yes. Treat will be free to use, with an optional Premium subscription for extras like seeing who liked you, unlimited swipes, and filters.

Isn't "who pays" a bit transactional?

It's the opposite of transactional — it's a courtesy. The bill is one of the most common sources of first-date awkwardness, and knowing where you both stand takes the tension out of it. Nobody is ever obliged to anything, and using Treat to solicit or offer payment for companionship is strictly prohibited.

Who can I meet?

You tell us — men, women, non-binary people, or everyone. You'll see people nearby who match what you're looking for.

How do you handle my data?

Your verification selfie is never shown publicly and your private messages stay private. Full details are in our Privacy Policy.

Our promises

Designed for dates, not screen time.

78% of daters report app burnout. Most apps profit from keeping you swiping. We'd rather you leave — with someone.

🚫No pressure notificationsOnly three kinds, ever: a date accepted, a message from a confirmed date, day-of logistics. Quiet hours by default.
🌙A daily limit, on purposeEndless swiping is how apps burn you out. You get today's picks, then we send you back to your life.
💬Messaging is always freeMatching and messaging are never paywalled. Premium buys convenience, not connection.
🤝We win when you meetOur roadmap earns from real dates — bookings and events — not from keeping you single and scrolling.

Be first in your city.

Treat opens one city at a time, at 151 signups. The waitlist decides which one is next — bring your friends and it could be yours.

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